Friday, December 23, 2005

Tears of joy, tears of sorrow

I went to a bris (ritual circumcision) today. The father, whose voice shook with emotion, said the prayers with an intensity I haven't witnessed in a long time. The mother, surrounded by friends, stood at the back of the room smiling nervously with the impatience of wanting her baby back in her arms. The grandmother, supported by a daughter-in-law, sobbed quietly into a handkerchief.

When the mohel finished his work, and the familiar thin wail filled the room, the crowd grew particularly quiet.

At this point of the ritual, an honored guest is asked to announce the name of the newest member of the Jewish tribe. There is usually an expectant hush, as everyone leans forward in curiosity.

This time the moment had a different feel to it. We waited, half in dread, half in hope, because we all knew ahead of time what the baby's name would be.

A year and a half earlier, an Arab terrorist approached a house in one of the settlements in Samaria, and shot through the front window. In addition to wounding a teenage girl, he killed this baby's uncle.

As expected, a trembling grandfather pronounced the same name he had chosen 47 earlier for his firstborn - this time for his grandson.

More tears, cries of "Mazal tov!", and the start of joyous singing, and this particularly poignant ritual came to a close.

8 Comments:

Blogger Jerusalemcop said...

very emotional.

what was the baby's name? and when and where was the uncle murdered?

Thanks

J.

9:17 AM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger westbankmama said...

Jerusalemcop-

Yisrael Yaakov, and his uncle was murdered in a yishuv (I don't remember exactly where) about a year and a half ago.

10:29 AM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger Jerusalemcop said...

thanks.

may we only know joy and no more sorrow.

Chanuka Sameach

11:46 AM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger Jameel @ The Muqata said...

The Yishuv was Avnei Chefetz if I'm not mistaken.

1:06 PM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger westbankmama said...

Yes, Jameel, you are right.

1:20 PM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger Jerusalemcop said...

http://www.pmo.gov.il/PMO/Communication/IsraelUnderAttack/Northern+Samaria/Yaakov+%28Kobi%29+Zagha.htm

2:18 PM, December 25, 2005  
Blogger Alan aka Avrum ben Avrum said...

Dear WestBank,

Poignant indeed! So beautifully told! Woulds't there were no such stories of baby boys being named after murdered uncles! I am,

Very Sincerely yours,

Alan D. Busch

10:26 PM, December 26, 2005  
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